Celebrating the Week of Love.

OMG! Valentine is a day from now. The ambiance of the event and emotional scintillation it conveys are the reasons I look forward to it.

Awka, Asaba, Onitsha, Lagos, Port-harcourt, Benin, Kano, Umuahia, Owerri, Enugu, Calabar, Aba are some of the towns I've celebrated this event personally or with a significant other in most cases.

Love to me is to be administered always not solely in this season but the fact that the civil world has set 14th February aside to be romantic is something I consider chivalrous.

The reason am kinda interested in this year's celebration may be because its nearly 40 months since I technically left a relationship.

Even as I advocate for a good relationship and stability,am also gonna tell you that you should not involve yourself in a toxic and parasitic union. If you find out you are lonely in a relationship,quit immediately.

If three years ago someone told me I could enjoy myself alone and not bother trying to impress anyone at all,I would not believe it. I hate to be emotional,I dislike emotions but I like to love and be loved in return.

Its not been easy at all but during this time I've discovered myself. I've enjoyed my privacy,loved myself,set records,broken them and set standards.

I think I know the value of respect,loyalty and peace better than what I perceived it to be 5 years ago.

What I look for in a prospective lover now has changed totally because I learnt the hard way from my experiences.

"My heart is a microcosm of eternal joy because I can envisage marriage is going to be heaven on earth."

Yeah,you heard it for the first time;its been over 1000 days of celibacy and single-hood for me.

Anyways,I ain't regretting any of that. I unplugged myself from drama and intrigue. My exes were nice people but during this time of sober reflection, I just concluded they ain't good enough for me.

I reference a German cliche which states thus;"The best or nothing."

"Das Beste Oder Nichts."

I've been loved by the best, I just can't settle down for less. Am really into girls that are perceptive and intuitive.

I loathe docile,negative and pessimistic ladies. If you know me very well,you can ascertain my class and pedigree,so a queen or empress is mostly of top advantage for candidature and investiture.

Happy Valentine Fella's but play safe.

Your guess is good as mine,I would be celebrating this year's in the synagogue. Lol!😆

In retrospect,amma name ma official girl by the last quarter of the year.

SELAh!!!